Beyond all limits
Closeness has nothing to do with distance. Many couples worldwide successfully maintain healthy and loving relationships even though they are physically miles away. On the other hand, it takes patience, passion, and a lot of creativity to keep things going, and phone sex might be the right thing to spice things up and make you even closer and hotter about each other. Phone sex is not reserved just for long-distance relationships. Having sizzling virtual sex with your hubby a couple of hours before he comes home might be mind-blowing foreplay.
Before engaging in having virtual sex with your lover, you need to work on a couple of things. First of all, you need to feel secure about the man or a woman that is on the other side of the line, and let your imagination run wild and free. Brushing up on a couple of dirty lines or erotic expressions might come in handy. The thing that is essential for successful phone lovemaking is to feel sexual attraction and not be shy to admit it. Watching the same porn movie and addressing the hottest scenes is one of the options. If you already have history, reminisce the wildest sex you had with your partner and bring it to life once again. There are no limits.
Pre-scheduling the phone call might be a good idea. It will make you both anticipate the arousing aftermath, thinking about what to say and do, making you both feel hot long before the convo actually begins. Depending on your personal sex inclinations, set the mood – take a bubble bath, light up candles or hop into lacy lingerie. If you really want to make virtual sex more real, prepare a couple of sex toys. Before picking up the phone, take some time to flirt – send messages to your partner, telling him/her how much you miss their voice. Don’t be afraid to show you love having sex, even if it just over the phone.
If you are a novice when it comes to phone sex, reading erotic stories might be handy. Not only will it arouse you, but it will also help you expand your dirty vocabulary. After all, words are all you’ve got to make each other crazy. Keep that in mind and use the most alluring words to intensify the horny endeavor. Set the record straight beforehand – openly discuss which expressions get both of you hot. While some couples prefer soft erotica, others love explicit vocabulary and kinky roleplay. In any case, phrases like “I want you to explore every inch of my body” or “I wish I had you inside me” might be good introduction lines.
Heat things up
Forget about the inhibitions before you pick up the phone. Phone sex often feels more pleasurable and exciting than real intercourse because saying something dirty over the phone is much easier than saying it face to face. A cool way to start could be asking what the person has on. Whatever you happen to be wearing, you can always spice it up and throw in a red lacy thong or super tight yoga pants. Undress your partner, guiding the hands to remove the clothes just like you would have done if you were there.
Take things slowly. Close your eyes and dive into the words, and let your hands become your partner’s. Move your inquisitive fingers over your body, stroke your swollen nipples, and caress your curves. Describe what you’re doing, keep going, and listen as your lover’s breath deepens. Talk about everything you are doing to your body, and don’t forget that sounds are your only weapon. When things get really heated up, don’t shy away from low moans or loud screams when an intense orgasm comes like a tidal wave.
Open your mind
Consider adding toys, especially if you are a woman. A nice dildo can help you feel the presence of your boyfriend as you listen to your guy’s masculine voice, guiding you to pick up speed. Try your new sex toy out and let your partner hear you use it. Whether you have never thought about bondage or blindfolds under the sheets, phone sex might be an excellent opportunity to see if it suits your desires. It will add even more excitement to the already steamy convo.
The raw sexual desire will turn into wave after wave of pleasure for both of you. You’ll soon start moaning and grunting wildly, uncontrollably, gasping, reaching wild orgasms in unison. If you set the proper mood and let your imagination run wild and free, you’ll keep cumming back for more, holding that phone every single night. The combinations and options are endless. All you have to do is find a private place, close your eyes and dive into the world of tantalizing words.